Hallo Female - Let's remember again, how many times did you want to say "No!" or reject something but in the end you accept the offer? In the heart wants to refuse, but somehow many women thought that in the end makes her resist the desire of her heart to say "No!"
This can be associated with things that relate to your love life. Sometimes women find it is hard to say no to his ex to get together again, difficult to reject the kindness of the man who is approaching you, even you want to completely reject all of it. Why do women harder to refuse than men? Here's 4 reasons.
Feeling guilty if refuse
In the book 101 Behaviors a Guy Needs to Understand About His Woman is written that a woman is very difficult to say no to other people because they feel guilty if they refuse. Although this solicitation is trivial, such as an invitation to have dinner at 10 PM (when you are trying to lose weight), women most likely will be difficult to refuse, because they are afraid of offending the person.
Because not confident
Many fears are often thought of women, sometimes women are not confident and think about the bad things if refuse something. Women also often do not want to be considered strange or poorly addressed by others. For example, still in the same case, have dinner at 10 PM, if refused, the woman is afraid considered diet, maintaining weight and tomorrow it will backfire for women. In the end, it is better she agree to have dinner invitation although she felt guilty herself.
Fear rejected someday
For example, there are your friends who have recently moved the boarding and ask for your help, but you have events in the hours requested. But in the end women are less likely to accept to help their friend. There is a feeling that if now refuse help, if you need help someday, someone else would reject as well.
Too concerned with the feelings of others
It has been their nature that women are sensitive beings, so they often unable to refuse because they do not want to hurt other people's feelings. Women basically have empathy and concern for others, so that they are less able to refuse for some things. As hard as any woman, she will usually yield, especially if it relates to the person she loves, such as family or partner.
This attitude can not refuse, sometimes gives a good effect, sometimes bad. If you know that the refuse will bring good to you, then feel free to say no, because sometimes you need to attach great importance to personal life rather than continue to say yes but your own suffering.
(Read: Relationship Advice for Women: Some Things You'd Better Hide It From Him)
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