Hallo Female - In general, child care is mostly done by the mother. While fathers more role as breadwinner and head of the family at home. Although these conditions are many found, it can not be denied that the care of the father is instrumental in the growth and development of the child. Research conducted Howard Steele, Director of Research Center Attachment Unit of University College London, UK, showed that the more frequent involvement of fathers in childcare positively influence the development of children's personality in the future. Therefore, spending a lot of time with father make the child learn many positive values.
More independent
Children become more independent because even though the father continue to assist when playing, but the father mostly watching from a distance. Fathers tend to let the children solve their own problems. If there is a precarious thing, such as a fall or a really hard time doing something, the father would come to help.
Dare to take a decision
Because the man tend to quickly make decisions without much consideration, in contrast to the mother.
More global in looking at a problem
Compared to the mother who look at everything in detail, the father actually look at the problem from a broader perspective. For example, when feeding, the mother should prepare a spoon, fork and knife. While the father may not need it all because only by hand, then the food could be eaten.
More jolly
Father figure who accompanies the child in the child's infancy made bold to express opinions, active, and more spontaneous act. This makes a child become a open-minded and fun person.
Making the father as a benchmark
When the child is mature, the child will seek or be a figure like he saw from his father. For example, a girl who grew up with a father who appreciate mother, loves children and does not hesitate to help the family at home, then when she is mature then he will see a man like her father. Likewise boy, he will grow up with the understanding that the man is a person who should appreciate the woman, love their children and help family work at home, like his father. So when he will be the head of the family, he would be a figure like his father.
Despite having different parenting, father and mother must remain equally involved in parenting.
(Read: Tips How Dads on Bonding With Your Baby)
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