Hallo Female - Divorce is not good news, especially for children. They are the worst affected. However, if your marriage and couples it can no longer be maintained, avoid doing these things to your children after divorce:
- Do not encourage children to talk about divorce if they do not want. No need to sue them because it would make the imposition of hatred. They may even choose to find resources from others.
- Do not talk negatively about other people divorce. Parents give another example of parental divorce in the hope the child can take it. For children, the story is confusing and makes them more frustrated.
- Do not take the children to go deeper into the subject of divorce. They are still children and can not think or act mature.
- Do not share all the fear, anxiety, anger, hatred, or your grief with children. They have not reached the development of how to overcome all these things. Sometimes parents want their children take care of. In fact, it's not a good position for the children.
- Perform a new family planning calmly without emotion. Sit down and let the children know what role will change. Do not do it democratically and do not ask for opinions or judgments. This way does not even help the children responsible for their work.
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