Hallo Female - There are a married couple in their old age mentions the secret of a lasting love relationship. It might seem cliché, but true. Communication, they said. Without good communication, you and your partner will be difficult to cooperate in pioneering this love affair.
However, not many people who understand how to communicate with partner should be. This interaction is not simply ask like how are you, what are you doing and where are you. More than that, it is related to the way you and he communicate with each other.
There are some mistakes that seem trivial, but can be long tail problem in your love relationship. Including, makes you and your partner break up. Here 3 fatal mistakes in communication frequently causes break up.
Lie
One little lie can make a thousand questions in the minds of our partner. A single lie can make us lie for the second and the umpteenth time. Delaying the time to tell the truth, can also be a time bomb because an explanation can not cure the disappointment. Avoid giving the statement that is not true, especially lying to your own feelings. Do not be too principled to 'lie for goodness'.
Insulting each other
You should suspect when your partner can not talk very well, even demeaning you with harsh words or insult. All people grew up in their culture ''mature way of speaking'. There are so outspoken, but there are also very good at putting themselves when speaking. But no one really likes harsh words, especially when it comes from the mouth of their partner. It's better to hold back and be alone when emotions rather than vent directly in front of your partner.
Less listening
Many relationships end because a lot of people would rather be right and be heard than to be happy with her partner. That's one of the messages delivered by the love relationship expert, Virginia Clark. Error communication is generally judge and blame their partner. Support and listening is the key to understanding your partner. Listen, think, understand, give support even just a hug. It means a lot for them.
When you want a romantic relationship, then do not be tired to appreciate your partner. Do not stop to hear when you want to be heard. Listen to each other will bring balance. Thus, you can do introspection, not to convince each other who is right and who is wrong, who wins and who loses.
Hold tightly when you and he have big problem. Never tired of listening to each other. Do not be ashamed to ask for forgiveness when you make a mistake. Hopefully these tips can make you more wise to communicate with your partner.
(Read: How to Make a Happy Marriage and Long Lasting? Apply This 4 Simple Words)
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