Hallo Female - You who have had children certainly understand that everything you do, good or bad, can be an example and role model in the child's behavior in the social environment. Therefore, children who are still in the developmental age usually will imitate what parents do.
Actually, according to Carrie Contey, a clinical psychologist, said that in fact the parents are aware that their children behavior is a reflection of their behavior. However, instead of reducing or eliminating bad habits, not a few parents tend to not care and continued to be negative in front of children.
"How can you claim the child to be more active outside the home, but you always watch television all day in the house," she said.
Then, another thing that is often not recognized by the parents is to involve children in the habit of keeping secrets from your partner. Author Honey I Wrecked the Kids, Alyson Schafer, said parents often violate the rules that they apply themselves. Then, ask the child to keep their secrets.
In addition, the behavior often mocks others in front of the children also have a negative impact on children. Therefore, the father and mother are often mocked relatives or friends behind them, it could inhibit the growth of empathy in children.
(Read: How to Overcome Parent Child Relationship is Not Well Established)
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